The Nursing Office Supports the 4th R Foundation
The 4th R Foundation is a non-profit education research foundation that researches informal/emotional intelligence education, human nature, brain, mind, conscientiousness, self, wisdom, life coaching, adult reeducation, shyness, self-image, emotional brain baggage and more.
It is well established that man becomes wise by old age. What happens is that the
emotional baggage that blocks wisdom gets ground out over the years; leaving the brain wise. Why let the emotional baggage settle in, in the first place in the young. We can also remove the emotional
baggage through brain therapy from those who are stuck with emotional baggage ASAP!
The 4th R Foundation has published 1600+ articles, all related to wisdom. Please google,'4th r foundation Sajid Khan' to review their work. All the ills of society from crime to drug addiction and corruption are due to lack of understanding wisdom.
Here is an example of what we do wrong in upbringing that creates havoc with society in so many ways. We bring up our girls humble and boys macho. Humbleness is the power behind wisdom. Thus we bring up our girls wiser than our boys. Look at the result of bringing up our boys macho. Just crime that costs over a trillion dollars in damage is caused by almost men alone. Can you imagine if we raised our boys as
humble as girls what difference it will make. Can you imagine the progress toward a wise society we will make if we raise every child as humble as humanly possible? Here is a link to their work:
ACF OPRE News: Vol. 3 Issue 19: Design Options for Future Early Head Start Research
What's New in Wisdom and Early Chlidhood Development
Romans 21:15(NIV). I do not understand what I do. For what I want to
do I do not do, but what I hate I do. - St. Paul
Romans 7:21(NIV). So I find this law at work: Although I want to do
good, evil is right there with me. - St. Paul
Even the Bible is showing us that the best of the best have two
personalities. In the majority of people the brain projects one
personality and the mind another. The mind projected personality is
moulded by education and the brain projected personality is generated
by the brain wiring that is created during the first five years of
It is amazing that most have two personalities in us and yet the world
is aware of only the mind generated personality and so all the
resources of time, research and money is spent on fixing the mind
generated personality. The miseducated brain generated personality is
what causes all the ills of society and yet it is neglected, ignored
and not even known; so no efforts are made to re-educate/fix the brain
It is the mind that projects educated and responsible behavior and the
brain behaves according to its fixations. When the person is acting
irresponsibly the whole focus is on trying to make the person become
responsible by teaching, scolding, preaching, persuading, punishing
the mind to act responsiblely. All these efforts on improving the mind
by teaching the mind seldom work; because irresponsible behavior is
generated by the emotionally challenged brain wiring. The brain wiring
has to be be retuned.
The mind generated personality is all that our experts know and try to
fix. The brain generated personality is below the radar screen. All
the tens of thousands of books; all the time, money and education in
schools are addressed to educating the mind generated personality
alone. No wonder even after studying these books nothing changes, as
far as the emotional intelligence of the person is concerned; as it is
the brain generated personality that needs healing. It is like the
engine is defective and we keep trying to fix the clutch.
The mind itself is generated by the brain and when the brain is
emotionally challenged then it projects an emotionally challenged
mind. Suppose the brain is the projector that projects a self
conscious mind/self-image. It is like the brain is projecting a green
self image and we write books and make every effort to educate the
green self image to change itself into a red self image; while all the
time the brain is projecting a green self image. What we need to do is
adjust/heal the brain to project a red self image.
We already have therapies that heal the subnormal into normal. We can
use the same to heal the so called normal society into becoming super
As the brain projected personality is established by the first five
years of upbringing we need to educate parents, teachers and social
workers to become experts of emotionally healthy conditioning of the
brain. For those older we need to introduce Brain Therapy and
It is extremely critical that our education and health leaders wake up
to the fact that the brain and mind personalities are two different
entities for most people. They get crafted by the brain and mind
getting educated differently. The fundamental source of the mind
personality is the brain wiring and when the mind is emotionally
challenged it is the brain healing that is required.
Our experts have little clue to the differences between the brain and
mind; they do not realize that the mind and brain personalities emerge
differently. Every emotionally challenged personality is subjected to
mind education when it is the brain generated personality that is
emotionally challenged and needs healing.
Can I Show You the Path to an Emotionally Super
(Today we are Almost the #1 Emotionally Challenged
Country in the World)
The self image is the face of the mind. By healing the self image the mind is healed. As our experts are still confused about the mind; we
can make the mind emotionally healthy by making the self image emotionally healthy.
The world is suffering from a very real fundamental flaw of emotionally challenged minds on such a vast scale. In other words the world is suffering from emotionally challenged self-identities/self-images. It is the self identity that determines one’s grip on reality: the key to an emotionally healthy life. From relationships to happiness and depression, to student failures and drug addictions, from crime to class divides; it is all determined by the emotional health of the self image. All the man made ills of society stem from emotionally challenged self images.
So the #1 problem that needs fixing is to make sure that, from individuals to groups; they all have emotionally healthy self images.
It is the government’s task to first establish emotional health standards by establishing self image standards and second to establish
the educational means to make these standards a reality.
I have already worked out the self image standard and the educational means to achieve these standards.
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